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Chris “Ludacris” Bridges makes me sick!

I was a longtime fan of his, but no more. I was a young adult when he released his debut album, and I have enjoyed his music ever since. But… *deep breath* According to People, this man-child and his new wife have successfully achieved their goal of ripping his 13-month-old daughter away from her mother for what appears to be no other reason than spite. He decided to seek primary custody of this baby AFTER her mother sought to raise the amount of his child support payments. Throughout the process I have not heard ANYTHING to suggest she was an unfit parent. Not one thing.

Lawd help me.

I don’t understand how or why a judge would take a baby away from it’s mother when there is not even a whisper that she’s an unfit parent!  I hurt so much for this woman.  But let me count the ways that Christopher is really to blame and has become the poster child for fuckboys everywhere.

1. He could have chosen to contest raising the child support.  That was a real option.  He also could have sought joint custody. He considered it and said to himself, “Nah. I’mma just take the baby. That’ll put an end to that.” He spent money on lawyers to get custody.  He could have paid those same lawyers to squash the child support payment request. Instead he ripped his infant from her mother. Only a raggedy, spiteful, petty little man would do that.

2. He married his girlfriend a month before going to court in an attempt to show his home would be better for the baby. I’m convinced that’s what he did.  Here’s why. He and Eudoxie dated from 2009 to the end of 2014. He proposed to and married her in the same day, just before the court date, and announced it on Instagram with a caption that said “Why wait?”. Why wait?? Because you’ve waited this long! And now you’re pressed? Could I be wrong about this? Absolutely! But a fuckboy of this magnitude is obviously capable of anything.

I wrote a few paragraphs up that he and Eudoxie did this together. I’m not sure if she really had a say, but she stood by and let it happen at the very least. Here’s how she’s an accomplice to his potato head shenanigans.

1. She married him.  She has been with that man a looooong time. I don’t believe it was possible that she didn’t know what he was trying to do by marrying her so suddenly. She may have felt pressured to go along with it. After all, she gave up her dream of becoming a doctor and dropped out of college to be with him. That was her choice to make and I support women making their own choices.  But having done that, and not having a career of her own, she became dependent on him in a way that I wouldn’t wish on anyone. At any rate, by marrying him she became an active participant in what I believe was his mean-spirited plan to gain primary custody of his child. I don’t think many women would do that to a mother who loves and takes proper care of her child. But maybe that’s just me.

*Shrugs*

I said all of that to say I AM DONE WITH CHRISTOPHER BRIDGES.  He can take a long walk off a short pier for all I care.  And I hope Eudoxie gets a backbone and does the right thing, but I find it unlikely. That poor baby.